2024 Issue #38 🌙

Happy Sunday, Reader!

Greetings from Sheboygan, where our fifth Wondernite is in the books. Between that and the Wonder & Whimsy Society Family Reunion we hosted in our backyard the day after, I'm still in introvert recharge mode...

I recently discovered that as an Enneagram 5 wing 4, my internal battery is like that of a ten-year-old smartphone: it's not capable of ever achieving a full charge, and it drains really fast, especially if it's doing processor-intensive tasks, like streaming video, or, you know, hosting back-to-back live events with hundreds of people.

This week I thought I'd share some thoughts and lessons from "behind the scenes."

Putting together Wondernite is like planning a wedding but with lots of painting, writing, photographing, varnishing, and framing involved. There is so much thinking, strategizing, and vendor communication, along with hours of setting up, and it's all over in a blink. We try to make it as efficient as possible, but it's still a lot.

🌙 Lesson: Anything worth doing well takes effort. You can make a meal in a microwave, but it's never as good as a home-cooked meal made from scratch.

Along those lines, I spent two months writing, polishing, and practicing a talk that, technically, I will only give once. Meanwhile, some decisions were made quickly and other details were completely overlooked. A while ago, I determined that that talk is the most important aspect of the evening. The more effort I put into it, the more likely people will connect with the art, and the more likely they will walk away inspired, uplifted, and encouraged, which is my main goal. It also makes them more likely to return with friends.

🌙 Lesson: It's important to figure out what's important and avoid wasting time on stuff that isn't. Don't major in the minors.

I said "technically" when I mentioned giving my talk once. Although I will not deliver the same stories in the same way again, I can repurpose the work elsewhere. I can use them in future keynote speeches, depending on the theme and message I'm trying to communicate. I'll also be sharing each one here in the Insider over the next seven weeks. An art mentor of mine calls this "getting all the meat off the bone."

🌙 Lesson: The next time you put a lot of effort into creating something, ask yourself, "Now that I have this, what does this make possible?" How can you reuse, recycle, or repurpose work you've already done into something else that's useful?

Wondernite has live and silent auction components, and yes, it's kind of uncomfortable when an item doesn't receive even one bid. My son was not happy about it, but I'm used to it because I know that it has nothing to do with me or even my skill as an artist. You never know what will resonate with people. Sometimes somebody falls in love with a work you don't much care for or a painting you knocked out in an afternoon as an afterthought. Sometimes no one looks twice at a piece you think is your masterpiece. And yes, sometimes you think a painting will strike a chord...and it does! (Like "Not a Morning Person," seen above.)

🌙 Lesson: No matter what you're in the process of creating — whether it's a painting, a new initiative at work, or a lesson plan for a classroom of students — the results are not in your hands. You don't get to decide on how other people respond. All you can do is the best you can do with what you have.

With an event like this, it's hard to decide what success looks like. The obvious measuring stick is money. How much revenue did we generate? Was it profitable? I'm still sorting through the numbers, but it looks like we edged out last year, which is great. But...should I feel disappointed that we didn't exceed it by a greater number? What about profit? Well, on paper, we made a lot more than we spent. But that doesn't factor in labor, which one could argue makes it ridiculously unprofitable and a complete waste of time. But then again, how does one measure the satisfaction of seeing the smiles, laughs, tears, and heartfelt thank you's that emerged from an event you created and art you made with your own two hands? Hmmm...now that's a little harder to put a price tag on.

🌙 Lesson: I had the pleasure of attending a speech by Tom Monaghan, founder of Domino's Pizza and former owner of the Detroit Tigers, and he said he knows a lot of very unhappy billionaires. Success comes in many different flavors. You get to decide what success looks like for you, and you don't have to settle for the default setting.

In more ways than one, Wondernite is a dream come true and a success on many fronts. Thank you to everyone who attended, participated in the online auction, and helped behind the scenes to make it happen!

Now if you'll excuse me, it's time for a nap.

🤔 I wonder...what lesson from this article most resonated with you today? Hit reply to share your thoughts with me, or join the conversation in the Escape Adulthood League!

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